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Michele was able to guide me when I was at a crossroads in my business. Her advise was invaluable in helping me launch my first product with a bang, bringing in 3 times my projected outcome. She was easy to speak to and really gave me the confidence to move forward in my business.
- Kristen Tammaro, Holistic Practice Marketing Mentor
In this episode I discuss the four things you must do in business – specifically in the area of client acquisition. These four steps are essential to getting leads in, converting them into clients and putting a system in place to continue to stay in touch with those leads and clients.
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In this episode I go deep into the difference between trying to do something versus doing something. Although it may seem like semantics, there’s a big difference – in the conviction of your words and how you act in the world. I also get into the impact of how trying to do something versus simple doing it, or BEING the change, can have on your life and business.
In this episode I talk about how many of us are living our life with a DVR mentality. That is, we think we have a ‘pause’ or ‘rewind’ button on life. I share with you today my belief about this mental view and the impact that it can have by continuing to operate in this way.
In this episode I talk about doing what you can when you can. This is different from the idea of simply being satisfied with “good enough.” I do believe you should always put your best effort forward in all that you do – and then let it go.
Unfortunately many people fall into one of two extreme categories:
- They do just enough to get by – never striving to be remarkable
- They let their need to be remarkable (and need for perfection) stop them from taking action and pulling the trigger
I think if you can can take a piece of content and after truthfully evaluating it, decide that it is possible someone will be a different person – even in some small way – after having consumed that content, then you’ve done your job.
You’re probably reading this because you are looking for that one quick fix that’s going to take your marketing from static to sensational.
Sensational marketing. Now that would be something.
I’m here to burst your bubble unfortunately. There isn’t one quick fix.
However, I wouldn’t bring you here if I didn’t have something of value to share, would I?
I spent a big chunk of my marketing career doing. Doing. Doing. Doing!
Initially I was doing it all thinking that was the answer. Eventually I came to realize that sometimes less is more … such was the case when it came to marketing.
As I was marketing my business and those of my clients, I began to realize that sometimes those strategies where producing substandard results.
Sometimes switching strategies worked. Sometimes it didn’t.
For the longest time I couldn’t quite figure out the best marketing strategy “formula”. I streamlined. I immersed. Why were some strategies simply not working or not working as well as I would like?
I got my first aha! moment when I watched a recent keynote speech by author, speaker, and entrepreneur, Gary Vaynerchuk.
In his speech, he talked about marketing in the world that we live in. He stated that getting romantic about your marketing is the easiest way to go out of business.
Just because one method of marketing has worked for you for years, does not mean it will still work for you today.
You have to apply marketing initiatives that your target audience likes and consumes, not necessarily what feels comfortable to you.
You may be thinking, well shouldn’t I use strategies and tactics that I resonate with and understand?
Yes and no.
If you can incorporate those marketing tactics and tools that you enjoy and understand, that would be the ideal situation of course. You’ll most likely stick with it if that is the case.
However if 80% of your target audience uses Vine or Instagram, and you’re not on that platform, you’ll be at a huge disadvantage. Ultimately this may cost you your business.
Here’s a simple solution. If you really can’t wrap your head around using a specific tool or platform, hire someone who can.
If it’s a viable platform or tool, the investment for acquiring leads and clients will outweigh the cost of outsourcing this initiative.
My second breakthrough was even more powerful and profound. It is something I’ve heard before and understood intellectually, but it never truly registered at my core.
It was simply this:
I woke the other day with a powerful thought. After having a massive breakdown the night before, it was a welcomed experience.
Over the course of several weeks I’ve been wandering around as something was not right… my life was not right.
It doesn’t occur often but when it does , it’s numbing. Definite head trip for sure.
The night of my “breakdown” I got to a place where I resigned. I finally for the first time, I think, accepted all that was in my life.
I had surrendered and accepted what my life had become – the good, the bad, and the ugly. There’s something soothing about accepting what’s so.
Yes it was coming from a place of resignation, but it felt good nonetheless. I had spent all of my life trying desperately not to accept what’s so – always wanting to be somewhere else. Wanting more money, a better business, a nicer house, to travel more. (All this wanting has been exhausting.)
Striving. Reaching. Full steam ahead.
Nothing wrong with wanting more. It’s natural … it’s nature. But does wanting more for your life mean having to constantly climb this exhaustive never-ending hill? With all this constant pushing, struggling, and going against the grain, you come to wonder if you’ve been wrong all along.
Is it all really worth it? There has to be a better way for sure!
A couple of weeks ago I was invited to do a keynote at the Public Speakers Association. Yay!
One of the strategies I committed to doing more of this year was public speaking. Sure I’ve done it before – but not nearly as much as I wanted to.
But I must confess. It’s never easy. As pumped up as I was about doing it, there was a part of me that was scared shitless.
Some things never change …
Let me share with you the real deal. What really goes on every time I step onto that stage.
The Inner Workings of the Public Speaker
As she stood in front of the room and began to introduce me, all I could hear were snippets of words coming from her mouth. Words such as ‘… needs no introduction,” “awesome marketer” and “Michele Welch’ was about all I could hear.
Seemed like a great intro. Wish I had paid attention …
My heart was thumping so loud , I swore they could hear it. I slowly took a few deep breaths. Maybe they wouldn’t notice the drastic rising and falling of my chest… or the sweat starting to form on my forehead… or my now flushed cheeks.
“Just remember the opening Michele,” I told myself. “You got this.” “You’re awesome.” “You know your shit.”
I’ve learned the art of pumping myself up. It usually worked. I’ve always managed to get through it.
The first few minutes is always the hardest. Inside my head an on going battle between remembering what I needed to say and my inner voice begging, “Oh please don’t forget your spiel!”
This is not how I practiced it.
What was that all too important point I wanted to make in the beginning??
But then something cool began to happen. As I continued to look at all those in front of me; feeling their desire for me to do well, there was a shift.
Today I want to write about something that I don’t think gets addressed often enough – how bad habits may be impairing your business (and life).
Often times when we’re struggling in our business it’s usually because of some untold truth or because we’ve taken on some “bad” habits. Quite often we are not even aware of these unproductive habits.
It can be as simple as not keeping on top of our numbers (Been there, done that!) or being inconsistent with our social media marketing (*cough*).
You know it’s very interesting. A lot people complain about social media … ‘they are not seeing the results they expected.’ I often get the all-too-often asked question, “How do I measure the ROI of social media?”
When asked, “How long have you’ve been consistent with the process of social media marketing?,” not surprisingly 80% of the time they respond with “A few weeks.”
Or they tell me that they post a few times a week but there’s really no rhyme or reason with their process and they are not consistent with it.
Just like with anything in life, it’s the long-term actions that create results … But you have to be consistent! You have to post regularly if you want to start seeing results. You also need to be strategic.
And if you’re not seeing results, then maybe it’s time to rethink your strategy or tactics. Each business is unique. Therefore what may work for one business, may not work for another.
The only way to get consistent with a process is by creating a habit out of it. Just like brushing your teeth, it becomes automatic. You do it without putting much thought into it. In the beginning it’s going to take some effort for sure, but as you do it long enough it becomes almost effortless.
This past week I’ve kept stalling about joining the Public Speakers Association. I had many “excuses” of course.
- How would I be able to keep up the monthly payments if income stopped coming in?
- What if I pay for the service and never use it? Been there, done that!
- What if I can’t take the time off to go to the meetings?
- What if I had nothing to say? (YES! This did enter my mind!)
But as I began to evaluate all the excuses (Valid for sure!) I had for not joining, I noticed something very profound – and at the same time alarming. They were all questions based on FEAR. None of it was true. It was all a projection of what I think might happen in the future.
In the moment, all there is is possibility. Therefore I was living into a future that did not exist and did not create the space for me to grow – as a person and as an entrepreneur.
The potential impact of being run by my fears were way worse than the fears themselves. The impact of not taking action were:
- I would be left behind
- I would remain stagnant
- I would never feel completely fulfilled and happy because I had made choices based on limiting beliefs and limited thinking
- My financial situation will be based on some else’ view of how they valued me and not how I valued myself
- That I would continue to struggle
- That I may have to rely on others when I grew old to take care of me because I never really “grew up”
A month ago I began reading a book called ‘How to Completely Change Your Life in 30 Seconds’ based on the works of Earl Nightingale. Great book by the way! I highly suggest it.
At a certain point in the book, Earl Nightingale suggested you write down a few important, yet specific goals. Nothing new right? I have a stack of cards spread throughout my home with goal cards. I’ve taught on the concept of SMART goals for goodness’ sake. This was going to be an easy exercise.
Or so I thought …
So I dusted off my journal (Which I haven’t written in over a month!), opened up to a clean page and thought hard about the top three goals I wanted to achieve. I knew getting a hold of my finances and achieving financial freedom was on the top of the list of goals I’d like to achieve, so I wrote down two goals – one centered around being debt-free and the other centered around my desired yearly net income by the year 2020.
However, health also has been an increasing priority in my life and therefore I decided to create a goal around that area as well. But here’s the deal. In the past, I’ve created health goals and if I achieved them they were short lived. Ultimately I’d end up back where I started … Very frustrating!
How would this health goal be different from every other one I created? I knew I needed to do some radical, out-of-the-box, thinking this time around. Out of nowhere – as if by divine intervention – Ironman popped into my head … NO, not the movie! The Ironman races – one of the most physically and mentally grueling triathlons you can participate in.
Yup! That one!!
I had no idea of what the Ironman entailed in terms of physical, monetary, and time commitment. But needless to say, I wrote down in my notebook,
Participate in the Ironman 2016
Fair enough. I had two years to train for this “Ironman thingy.” I immediately (and impulsively) got onto Facebook and shouted out loud for the whole world to hear, that I was going to do Ironman 2016 … “Who’s with me?”
The response was not completely what I expected, LOL. I had a couple, “YES. I’m in.” But mostly got, “I’m not that crazy?!” An hour later, my dear friend proceeded to text me:
2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike and 26.2mile run inspired?!
After the initial shock and horror, I proceeded to crack up uncontrollably. Talk about making a decision without knowing all the facts. But nonetheless, I made a decision and had every intention on sticking with it.
Well, let me just say that it’s been nearly a month since that day and to my own surprise, I’m still forging ahead with this crazy idea. It’s been a challenge since day one, mentally and physically, but I haven’t given up on my new-found dream of becoming a Iron(wo)man.
But in the past month, as I struggle to push my body just a little harder than the day before and fight with my internal conversations of “Just give up and go back to bed. Nobody would blame you for it,” I remind myself of what this would mean for me and the promise that I’ve made to myself.
I’m also reminded of how many times I had thrown in the towel and how those choices have impacted my life. But mostly in a very short time, I’ve learned three very powerful lessons that I’m taking into my training, my business and my life in general.
And so here they are: