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The Inner Workings of the Public Speaker

Public Speaking

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A couple of weeks ago I was invited to do a keynote at the Public Speakers Association. Yay!

One of the strategies I committed to doing more of this year was public speaking. Sure I’ve done it before – but not nearly as much as I wanted to.

But I must confess. It’s never easy. As pumped up as I was about doing it, there was a part of me that was scared shitless.

Some things never change … 

Let me share with you the real deal. What really goes on every time I step onto that stage.

The Inner Workings of the Public Speaker

As she stood in front of the room and began to introduce me, all I could hear were snippets of words coming from her mouth. Words such as ‘… needs no introduction,” “awesome marketer” and “Michele Welch’ was about all I could hear.

Seemed like a great intro. Wish I had paid attention …

My heart was thumping so loud , I swore they could hear it. I slowly took a few deep breaths. Maybe they wouldn’t notice the drastic rising and falling of my chest… or the sweat starting to form on my forehead… or my now flushed cheeks.

“Just remember the opening Michele,” I told myself. “You got this.” “You’re awesome.”  “You know your shit.”

I’ve learned  the art of pumping myself up. It usually worked. I’ve always managed to get through it.

The first few minutes is always the hardest.  Inside my head an on going battle between remembering what I needed to say and my inner voice begging, “Oh please don’t forget your spiel!”

This is not how I practiced it.

What was that all too important point I wanted to make in the beginning??

But then something cool began to happen. As I continued to look at all those in front of me; feeling their desire for me to do well, there was a shift.

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